Monday, May 13, 2024

Lonely

Loneliness isn't about quantity but quality. Upon closer examination, many factors contribute to loneliness. It's the absence of bonding, connection, feeling loved, feeling wanted, a sense of belonging, being misunderstood, rejection, bullying, and feeling secure. This can stem from external environments (even if just one person is capable of accepting, caring, being sincere, trusting, and nurturing) as well as from within oneself (acceptance, comfort, security, and unity with oneself).

Many super genius individuals feel lonely because there's no one who can truly understand them. They end up feeling alone, alienated, and often judged as strange, not okay, unstable, and rejected because of their brilliant minds. Similarly, intense individuals with high energy levels find that not everyone can handle or accept their energy (speaking passionately is seen as anger, being attentive is seen as having ulterior motives, genuine love is seen as too overwhelming, deep feelings are seen as overdramatic, deep thinking is seen as overthinking, being critical is seen as complaining, offering help is seen as wanting to take advantage, sincerity is seen as having hidden agendas, thinking about others is seen as selfishness, visionaries are belittled simply because others cannot see what they see far ahead, etc.).

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